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Finding the right venue is one of the most critical parts of planning a wedding.
If you can find a good venue, this can actually make several parts of the rest of the planning process much easier.
The space needs to suit the couple’s needs for their wedding or wedding party, as well as being aesthetically pleasing. Of course, it helps if the venue you choose is stunning on its own. But in this module, you will learn all about the different components that make up the perfect wedding venue for your next event
Email from Bill the Vicar – 18th March 2020
I attach the latest information from the C of E on weddings.
It doesn’t address the issue of how to qualify for the electoral roll if there are no services to attend, but we can probably find a way round that. The more immediate issue is what to do if banns can’t be called: it would probably be necessary to apply for a common licence. These are normally a lot more expensive than banns, but I’m hoping it will be possible to reduce the fee charged to something like the same level. No news on that yet, but the bishop was hopeful when I spoke to him.
A further issue is whether restrictions on numbers might be placed. I’m hopeful that by the first wedding at Trelystan (6th June) things will have eased a bit, but I’m also conscious that, if not, a substantial number of people in the church will be a lot closer together than the government and leading medics are recommending. Again, I’m sure we can find a way round this – maybe only immediate family in church, and the service relayed to those outside. It may be legally possible for a couple to be married outside the church but in the churchyard, if weather permits (that’s being investigated). I suspect there will be some restrictions throughout the whole of the summer if not the rest of the year.
I’ll be back in touch as soon as I know more.
With good wishes
Letter Attached – see below
The Coronavirus and marriage in the Church of England – Guidance to clergy in the Diocese of Hereford
On 17th March the Archbishops of Canterbury and York advised, in line with Government advice, that all public worship in the Church of England in person be paused until further notice. On the same day the Bench of Bishops of the Church in Wales advised that church services and gatherings for public worship should no longer take place, including regular Sunday services.
The Church of England guidance states that weddings services can take place but subject to the rules and guidance on social distancing. Any wedding in a church would need to be on a very small scale. It notes that only five people need to be present at a marriage service: the couple and the clergyperson, plus two witnesses.
The following is advice of a general nature intended for clergy addressing some of the key issues. This note is considered to be correct as of 18th March 2020.
Q & As
The banns have been read and a date fixed for the wedding – whose decision is it to cancel or postpone the wedding?
Unless the government changes the law, the common law right of parishioners and those with a qualifying connection to be married in a parish church remains. However, the date, time and other arrangements are, legally speaking, for the minister to determine. It is for the minister, in consultation with the couple, to make a decision about how whether the marriage can take place during the Coronavirus outbreak. It would also be for the minister to prescribe any conditions if the wedding was to go ahead in his or her church, such as a limit on numbers to ensure social distancing.
Any cancellation, postponement or change to conditions of a wedding should be taken in consultation with the couple, mindful of couple to ensure that any decision to postpone the wedding does not cause unnecessary financial hardship to the couple if they cannot recover costs of other expenses such as for reception venues. The terms of existing wedding insurance should be checked to ascertain in what circumstances insurance will be available.
If the minister cancels the wedding, all fees paid to the Parochial Church Council should be refunded with the possible exception of the fee for the reading of the banns and for the banns certificate. If the Parochial Church Council have sub-contracted with other parties to provide other services, eg the purchase of flowers, and would suffer loss if the wedding were not to take place, this is a matter of the law of contract and separate advice should be taken.
The reading of the banns has not been completed – what can we do?
Banns are to be published on three Sundays preceding the marriage. There is no requirement that these should be three successive Sundays. Banns must be published at either the principal service or both the principal service and another service. If, following the guidance of the Archbishops of Canterbury and York, there is to be no public service accessible to the public and the reading of banns has not been finalised, then the couple will need to obtain an alternative marriage preliminary if the wedding is to go ahead (see below). It is our view that banns cannot be read behind closed doors or where no members of the congregation are invited to attend, whether or not the service is to be “live-streamed” to a wider digital community.
Apart from the reading of banns, what are the other options?
Common licence – is the Bishop’s permission for a marriage to take place in a particular church. In order to qualify for the issue of a common licence one or both of the parties to the proposed marriage must:
- have resided in the parish where the marriage is to take place for at least 15 days immediately preceding the date when the affidavit for the Common Licence is sworn; or
- be on the church electoral roll; or
- one of the parties must be able to show a qualifying connection with the parish (Church of England Marriage Measure 2008).
Normally, if a couple would have been able to marry by banns, they would be eligible for a common licence. There are some exceptions (see “What about more complicated cases” below). To apply for a common licence, apply direct to a surrogate for marriages. A surrogate is a member of the clergy who has been specially appointed for this role. There are a number of surrogates appointed in parishes around the Diocese. Contact the Registry for a list. The Registrar can also issue common licences. Once the minister has referred the matter to surrogate there is a two stage process – 1. Application and 2. Meeting the surrogate in person to swear an affidavit that the couple’s details are correct.
Note that common licences are only valid for 3 months from the date of swearing the affidavit and would need to be re-applied for and the affidavit would need to be re-sworn if the wedding was to be postponed to a later date.
Superintendent registrar’s certificate – normally these are only used when one of the parties to the marriage is a non-UK/EEA foreign national. More information is available from the civil Register Office from which they are issued. At the time of writing the validity period is twelve months. There is a 28 day notice period (which can be increased to 70 days in the case of non-UK/EEA nationals) between the giving of Notice of Intended Marriage and the issue of the SRC. Therefore as the law presently stands, SRCs cannot be obtained at very short notice.
Special licences – are issued from the Archbishop of Canterbury’s Faculty Office. If the options above are not available and if all else fails, the Archbishop of Canterbury’s Faculty Office is able to grant a special licence for a marriage to take place at any convenient time or place in England or Wales. The issue of a special Licence is discretionary. Please make an early enquiry with the Faculty Office if you think a special licence will be needed. Although special licences are normally issued with a three month period of validity, in view of the Coronavirus the Faculty Office is now issuing licences with a one year validity period.
The banns have been read and the couple want to postpone the wedding – will their banns still be valid?
A marriage after banns must be solemnized within three calendar months from the last publication. After three months the publication of banns becomes void. The banns will either need to be re-read, or if that is not possible, another preliminary for the marriage – common or special licence or superintendent registrar’s certificate (see above) will be needed.
What about more complicated cases?
More complicated cases will occur. For example, there are provisions which allow the Bishop to issue directions for the publication of banns and solemnisation of marriages where two or more benefices are held in plurality and where there are two or more parishes or parish churches in the area of a single benefice, to make it easier for banns and marriages to be moved within the same benefice or more than one benefice when held together by one minister in plurality. If a wedding taking place by virtue of the Bishop’s directions in another parish in a “multi-parish benefice” than the parish with which the parties to the marriage have the legal qualification, and the banns cannot now be read, speak to the Registry about whether a common or special licence is the best solution to the problem.
Will the couple get their money back for costs paid out?
Separate advice will need to be taken for costs paid out or committed such as for wedding reception venues. If the minister cancels the wedding, the church costs which have already been paid to the Parochial Church Council should normally be refunded with the possible exception of fees for banns read. A conversation with the couple should occur prior to cancellation or postponement in order to fully appreciate the financial consequences and to ascertain the best way of proceeding which would cause the minimum financial loss.
What if the officiating minister or couple fall sick?
Arrangements should be made to ensure that there is a back-up Anglican member of the clergy with licence or permission to officiate in case the officiating minister is required to pull-out due to sickness. A lay person or a minister of another Christian church cannot officiate in the place of the Anglican member of the clergy. If the couple fall sick, serious consideration should be given to whether the wedding should proceed. That would be a matter to be risk-assessed in view of all the relevant information at the time.
1 The Sanctuary
18th March 2020
For those brides looking to attend a church service here is a list of the proposed future services in the church – please check nearer the time as the dates may change without notice.
Would you like to know more about getting married in the Church?
St Mary’s Church, Trelystan is a Church of England church and therefore governed under the following church rules.
1. Are the couple free to marry one an other? If yes then check out the details below.
2. Does the bride or groom or any member of their family have connections to the Trelystan, Leighton parish? If so the couple are free to marry in the church
3. If the couple or any of their family have no relation of the Trelystan or Leighton parish then the church would like the couple to become registered on the parochial register.
To do this the church would like the couple (or one member of the couple) to attend one service a month over a 6 month period (the period can be extended so 6 services over 12 months). Three of these services are the couples bans.
The church only holds one service a month (second Sunday each month) so therefore understand if the couple can’t make ALL six services. Once complete the couple are then free to marry in the church.
4. If the couple were to stay in the local area for 3 or more consecutive weeks.
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The couple could give 28 days notice in their local registry office, thereafter sign their wedding certificate in the presence of two witnesses without any ceremony. The couple could then have a church blessing or renewal of vows. Same as a wedding ceremony but without signing the register, similar to getting married abroad. The church blessing if half the cost of the actual church wedding and guests would be non the wiser.
Signing the wedding certificate can be done on the morning of the wedding or anytime before the blessing to suit the bride and groom.
Not looking to Marry in the Church
Why not have a personalised ceremony outside with a celebrant. Once you have signed the register (see below) you are free to hold a ceremony with you guests outside or in the Marquee/tipi
How to apply at the registry office
- Call your local registry office –
- There will be a booking fee approx £21
- Notice of marriage approx £35 per person (28 day notice)
- As you will be holding your ceremony at Quaint Country Weddings you only need to visit the registry office to sign the register with 2 witnesses – Fee approx £46 (week days) £170 (Saturday) – this can be carried out the day before your ceremony.
Here is the link to the fees at Powys Country Council registration office
The wedding theme is one of the most creative and exciting parts of the wedding for a wedding planner.
This is where you have a chance to shine compared to other wedding planners.
The couple is what will hold the wedding together, but the theme is what makes the ceremony and party look cohesive. As a wedding planner, it is your job to help a couple establish a theme, plan the theme and execute the theme
Printed materials may consist of invitations, place settings, menus, thank you cards and anything else that is created to give to the guests attending the wedding.
The best way to keep track of all these printed items is to organise them into three groups. These groups include materials distributed before the wedding, during the ceremony and after the wedding.
Many people choose to go the route of the wedding planner because this is the type of event that they find most exciting. Who could blame them? A wedding is a joyful, happy affair by its very nature.
A wedding is a different kind of event for more reasons than the obvious. Many of the other events that are planned require the event planner to be able to market the event successfully. These events often require payment negotiations, ticket sales and all of the other things that are involved with running a business event.
However, this does not mean that the role of the wedding planner is easier than that of a corporate event planner or a conference manager; it just requires different skills.
Every wedding is different and every couple is different. As a result, there is not a typical task that wedding planners do every single day.
A wedding planner is more than just an event coordinator. A wedding planner is a shrewd negotiator, a purveyor of taste, a shoulder to lean on, a multi-tasker and a problem solver.
Wedding planners are personal assistants for the happy couple. They are also accountants who specialise in wedding finances, as well as people with great creative visions. When a client comes to you as a wedding planner, they want to know that you can take their ideas and turn them into a reality. They also want you to manage their budget, make sure that everything goes right on the day, and help you finalise the details of the wedding once the big day is over